No, it doesn’t.
And if it actually did, it is the one command every Christian breaks on a daily basis.
I am sure you have been in one of THOSE arguments, debates, or discussions. You know when you express your opinion about a matter and someone shrieks, YOU ARE JUDGING!
Why of course, we are judging.
We all judge each and every day of our lives. Common sense tells us this is so.
People who use the stop judging line are trying to control the debate and stifle any opinion other than their own. If you agree with the person you are a wonderful person but if you disagree you are judgmental.
I wish these don’t judge people would at least be honest when they open their mouth, post something on Facebook, write a blog post, etc. They need to preface each public pronouncement with:
I am not interested in what you think. If you disagree with me I will consider you to be a judgmental person and if you continue I might even throw a fit, and if you really, really keep at it I will SHOW you…I will unfriend you on Facebook. TAKE THAT!
Let’s settle one thing here. You judge, I judge, we all judge. What matters is HOW we judge, what standard we use for judging.
And that, by the way is exactly what the Bible says.
Christians, by far, are the whiniest when it comes to judging. With Bible in hand they make all sorts of judgments . They judge who is saved and who is lost. They judge what sin is and they really, really like to judge sexual sin. (a sign that they have not gotten laid lately)
Yet, when others turn their judgment towards them they protest loudly and say, the BIBLE says, thou shalt not judge.
Let’s look at what the Bible actually says:
Judge not, that ye be not judged. For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye. (Matthew 7:1-5)
Most people stop at Matthew 7:1. Judge not, that ye be not judged.
Seems pretty clear doesn’t it? Don’t judge others if you don’t want to be judged yourself.
This one verse is foundational for those who think we should tolerate any belief a person might have. The toleration at all costs crowd thinks every person is autonomous and has a right to say whatever they want. Free speech reigns paramount.
The libertarian in me generally thinks toleration is a good idea but when individuals or groups bring their ideas into the public square any notion of toleration must be put aside. In a democracy like ours, we fight our battles in the public square. Citizens bring their ideas to the public square in hopes of finding like minded people to join with their cause. Often they do, but in the public square they also often find those who oppose their cause. And so competing causes, ideas, and beliefs clash with one another and wage war against each other in the public square. Over time, it is hoped the best cause, idea, or belief wins. (and I speak with gross generalization here)
It is likely the winner’s cause, idea, or belief will have been altered by those who challenged it. Through this bloody give and take we progress and move forward as a people. (1) As you can readily see, the scientific method fits well in this kind of environment. Scientist A says _____________________, and Scientists B, C, and D take exception and through the scientific method set out to challenge, refute, or modify what Scientist A said.
Note what the Bible says in Matthew 7:2-5, the verses few Christians ever bother to read. (after all, Christians subscribe to the “ignore what doesn’t fit my agenda, worldview, way I want to live, rule of interpretation.”)
Verse 2 says:
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
For WITH WHAT JUDGMENT YE JUDGE, ye shall be judged. The Bible is quite clear. It is a given…we all make judgments, so when we judge, whatever standard of judgment we use, that same standard of judgment will be used by others when they judge us.
The Bible even addresses the method we use to judge when it says with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. In modern vernacular the Bible is saying, however you dish out judgment expect it to be dished back to you the same way.
Over the course of 4 years of blogging people have left almost 15,000 comments on my various blog iterations. A small percentage of comments were left by Christians with nasty dispositions, Christians who were so filled with certainty that they had no tolerance for any differing viewpoint. (I can count on one hand the non-Christians who did this) They knew the truth and their objective was to tell me that I was wrong, deceived, blind, lost, headed for hell, or an enemy of God. In their worldview there is no room for doubt or not knowing.
These know-it-all Christians tend to be arrogant, bombastic, and lacking in basic social graces. Of all the different types of people I have met on the internet, they are the type that really get under my skin. (perhaps because I was just like them at one time in my life) I tend to respond “in kind” to this kind of commenter. Using Bible terms, I am just meting out to them what they meted out to me.
Bit by bit I am learning to not engage people who think like this. They lack the ability or the desire to engage in thoughtful discussion and, to use a Bible quote again, discussions with them is casting my pearls before swine. Simply put, it is a waste of time.
Well, enough of chasing that rabbit trail. (the preacher in me still lives) Back to Matthew 7:1-5.
Verses 3 and 4 say:
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
The Bible teaches that we should first consider our own life, our own faults, our own inconsistencies, and for my Christian readers, our own sins, before we consider the the deficiencies of others.
As is often the case, we tend to be able to see the smallest of matters in the lives of others (the mote, a small sliver) all the while not being able to see the biggest of matters in our own lives.(the beam)
Before we judge others we should carefully judge ourselves. We seem to rarely do this. Self reflection. Taking an inventory of our own lives. Like the old evangelist said, draw a circle on the floor, stand in the middle of the circle, and judge everyone in the circle.
This kind of judgment will fundamentally change how he judge others. As we carefully plumb the depths of our own being we will likely become more understanding of those we disagree with. This doesn’t make the disagreements go away but it does help us to see we are ALL capable of embracing ideas that are faulty or dangerous.
Does this mean we shouldn’t judge others? Of course not. Notice what verse 5 says:
Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye.
If we judge ourselves first we will then be able to better judge the actions, words, ideas, and beliefs of others. The hypocrite ignores his own life and focuses on others. We see this all the time with Christian pastors. You know the type…they thunder against sin, most often sexual sin. They eviscerate all those who dare transgress the Bible’s sexual standard. Yet, in their own lives they do the very things they condemn. (Ted Haggard, Jimmy Swaggart, Bob Gray, Jack Hyles, Benny Hinn, Paul Crouch, Jim Bakker, Eddie Long, and too many Catholic priests to count, just to name a few.)
I am of the opinion that those who shout the loudest over the peccadillos of others often commit those very same sins in the privacy of their home, office, motel room, or back seat of their car. They are hypocrites of the first degree.
The Bible, from start to finish, clearly teaches that Christians are to judge others, It never teaches, thou shalt not judge. It DOES teach judging righteously. It does teach using a proper standard of judgment. It does teach a judgment that begins with self.
But, Bruce, you are not a Christian. No I am not. I wrote this post to, first, tell those Christians who love to scream DON’T judge to shut the hell up. They need to read the Bible they say they believe. Better yet, they need to PRACTICE the teachings of the Bible they say they believe.
As an atheist, I can glean some helpful guidance from Matthew 7:1-5. It stresses the important of self-judgment before taking on the task of judging others and their their ideas and beliefs. I need to be often reminded of my own shortcomings (sorry Christians, no sins for me) and motives. I need to be reminded that I am, like those I oppose, a fallible, frail human being. I can be be w-r-o-n-g.
The comment section awaits your judgments of this post.
(1) Religion does not play well in this kind of environment. Religion is based on revealed truth, on dogma. In the United States the dominant religion is Christianity, a religion founded on a truth that cant not be altered or changed. This is why Christians do not fare well in the public square. They have little capacity for change. To change means they or their God are wrong. Now we know, as we look through the lens of 2000 years of Christian Church history, that the Church has indeed adapted and changed. But, it should be noted that this kind of change takes a much longer time than it does with other people and groups. Christianity is nothing, if it is not arrogant and intractable about its truth.

Here’s a classic from the Scriptures that you can use next time you have to deal with one of them, bro, (and, its one of my favorites): “Go from the presence of a foolish man, when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge” – Proverbs 14:7. Meaning? “Don’t waste your time arguing with an idiot”. Lol!!
When they say, “You are being judgmental”, at that exact moment they are being judgmental of you. At any rate, when the diversion is attempted away from what is at issue toward ‘how you are being’, there should be an immediate end to further discussion, as it has been shown to be futile (excepting on the interwebs, where pointing out such tactics to the lurkers can be of use).
Also, something you said really struck me: “…we all make judgments, so when we judge, whatever standard of judgment we use, that same standard of judgment will be used by others when they judge us.” In my believing days, it wasn’t the reciprocation of my judgment by other’s judgment that this meant, it was that God’s final judgment on me would reflect the leniency or harshness of how I judged others. Thank Zeus that concern is gone.
Is it good to make all these general statements, though. All institutions resist change. It is the nature of the beast.
Christians are all quite different from each other in the same way that there are differences among non-theists. How would you be feeling if I made statements like atheists are angry, or atheists are amoral? It would hurt.
I agree with you that it is not wrong to practice wisdom and discernment. The Scripture does talk about “righteous judgement.”
I think it is difficult, though, to discern the motives and spiritual condition of others. Can we really determine if someone is a Christian based on things like manner of dress? I agree that this young girl’s clothing did not reflect a good testimony for her faith. But, she may be young in her walk with Christ. She might come from a background where there is not a lot of teaching or positive example in this area. She may have other issues in her life. Can you see what I’m saying?
One thing I do know. We need to be patient with each other. It is never good to cut someone out of your life because of offense or a difference of opinion. How can we ever expect to see peace and unity in our culture as a whole if we can’t work through our differences together, and give each other the benefit of the doubt on an individual basis.
But, I do think it a reflection of fallen human nature that we would rather, like your face book friend, just walk away.
Rebecca.
Grace you know, surely you know, I have no time for playing the differentiation games. Like it or not there are a lot of bat-shit crazy people in the Christian family. It is not my responsibility to constantly write “some Christians aren’t like that.” Besides you seem to do that in the comments so there is no need for me to do so.
As long as Christianity tolerates abusive, controlling, cultic or patently un-scriptural, non-Christian behavior they have no grounds to criticize people like me who refuse to play the differentiation game. Throw them out. How about Christians exposing these miscreants or false Christians rather than hiding behind cliches like “good people differ” or “maybe they are a young Christian.” how about making sound judgment and calling out and exposing the crazy aunts and uncles?
I am quite willing to point out the deficiencies of the atheist movement. I have never been one to shy away from controversy. That said, I know that most atheists are not angry or amoral, whereas my observations about Christianity and its leaders are pretty much spot on. If you are upset about that…what can I say? You willingly dismiss the huge cancer that is sucking the life out of American Christianity. You chalk it up to differences of opinion or belief or perhaps psychological or environmental issues. This may make you feel better but the cancer still continues to suck the life out of the Christian church.
People like me are not the problem. Atheists will not bring the Christian house down. Christians will do it themselves.
Of course you knew I would say this. 3 years now, Grace. I am not going to change. So…protest all you want. Object that I am not being fair or kind…I plan to just keep writing and you will keep reading until you don’t.
Bruce, you were born to be a preacher.
Has it really been three years?
Several years ago I met a pastor who shared “tongue in cheek,” “The trouble with the Christian church is that we have to take em all in. Folks who can’t make it, and wouldn’t be accepted anywhere else end up in the church.”
It does seem to me there is a balance. You’re right. We should all be speaking out against abuse and excess, and striving to be a good example in our own lives.
But, I wouldn’t want to see anyone simply thrown under the bus, either.
Our Lord reached out to social outcasts, and partied with the worst of sinners.
Rather we err on the side of inclusion. Trust God to sort it all out.
It’s His business what happens to His church.
Love,
Rebecca.
Except…….the Bible clearly commands churches and its leaders to discipline erring members and this requires that judgments be made concerning what people believe and how they live. God told the church to sort it out. It is their business to police the church and make sure heresy is not taught.
Thanks Bruce, this posting made me remember my own not so wonderful encounter with Jimmy Swaggart back in 1981. Linked here in the posting on my blog. Did a ‘So Going To Hell” thing to Swaggart, pompous blowhard. Told my kids the story for the first time and they laughed because I would have never admitted to such a thing back in my fundy days
“As an atheist, I can glean some helpful guidance from Matthew 7:1-5. It stresses the important of self-judgment before taking on the task of judging others and their their ideas and beliefs. I need to be often reminded of my own shortcomings (sorry Christians, no sins for me) and motives. I need to be reminded that I am, like those I oppose, a fallible, frail human being. I can be be w-r-o-n-g.”
As far as I’m concerned, this is the interesting and useful thing about the Bible–what can we glean from this impressive attempt at a human ethics? Whatever we think of the Bible’s oracular status, it DOES represent an important effort at an articulation of a set of general ethics, though given the fact that it was written over the course of probably a thousand years, we can’t expect a uniform standard, and indeed, we don’t find one. Like Bruce says, most people just pick and choose the verses that align with their independently-arrived-at sensibilities. I laugh at the current hysteria over gay marriage and abortion, since the Bible is VERY ambiguous about the latter and doesn’t AT ALL consider the former (since it only considers gayness as depravity). Meanwhile a thousand things it is VERY clear on (e.g., honoring the Sabbath) are simply ignored.
A great post, Bruce.
I think Jesus taught that we should limit our judging to the people in the church and let the world judge the world. Who are we to judge another person’s master?
American imperialist Christians use our form of government as an excuse to judge the world.
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The happiest people on earth are the ones that embrace the differences of others with an open mind and positive attitude and pay them respect based on the integrity of their actions and character. If this makes no sense I apologize, after reading this post its what felt natural to say. I speak and act from the heart. Lets get other to open their minds by expanding our own and do our best to maintain an positive outlook on whatever situation befalls us. The whole lead by example thing, then others will come around with the if you cant beat them join attitude. Hopefully
I really like this article! I am a christian and I must say alot of us have gotten lost in the mix of Moral Relativity…I always say judge the sin and not the sinner. We must always remember that through talking to people we must also witness to those who we confront in our daily lives. Thank you for your aritcle!