The Good and Bad of Midwestern Baptist College

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Polly Shope and Bruce Gerencser, February 1977, Midwestern Baptist College Sweetheart Banquet

Recently, a man named Steven Tassell left the following comment:

I attended Midwestern from 1973-1979

I had my problems however I’m not trying to destroy anyone. If you had a problem with sex at school that was on you. I was a chaplin [sic] for USAF, taught school at Fort Knox and I’m a pastor with my Doctorate in counseling. So instead of telling the bad because any school has that tell the good.

Polly and I attended Midwestern Baptist College from 1976-1979. Polly’s father attended the college from 1972-1976. None of us knows a Steven Tassell. Now, that doesn’t mean he didn’t attend Midwestern. There were a number of married students who attended the college that neither Polly or I personally knew. We were dorm students for two years, marrying during the summer between our sophomore and junior years.

I attempted a cursory search on Tassell’s name. That, too, returned very little information, save a dated church listing, several funeral listings, and a Linkedin profile for a Steven Tassell who attended Midwestern, Faith Baptist College, and is currently a support supervisor at a Walmart Tire and Lube. I am uncertain as to why Tassell felt the need to recite his “important” work history, especially since it bears no relevance to the post he commented on. Tassell says he had a “Doctorate” in counseling. As readers know, most Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) preachers sporting doctorates either “earned” them at unaccredited schools or through online classes, or were given an honorary degree. (Please see IFB Doctorates: Doctor, Doctor, Doctor, Everyone’s a Doctor) I have no idea if Tassell’s doctorate was earned at an accredited institution. My gut tells me no.

Now, to Tassell’s comment. In classic passive-aggressive fashion, Tassell stated, “I had my problems, however I’m not trying to destroy anyone.” He, too, had “problems” while attending Midwestern, but unlike Bruce, the atheist, he’s not trying to destroy anyone. I find it interesting that, according to Tassell, by telling my story and sharing my experiences as a student at Midwestern, I am trying to destroy people. Tassell suggests that I not speak of the bad things that happened at Midwestern and only speak of the good that I saw and experienced. That I refuse to only tell half the story makes me, in Tassell’s eyes, a bad person. How dare I speak poorly of the college, Dr. Tom Malone, my professors, or my fellow students. Just tell GOOD stories, Bruce! Sorry, but I can’t do that. I decided twelve years ago to be an honest, open, transparent storyteller. If that meant casting a bad light of myself and others, so be it. How can readers ever understand my experiences at Midwestern if I only tell them the good stuff? Honesty demands telling the truth, as best I remember it.

I have many fond memories of the three years I spent at Midwestern. Dorm life, even at an IFB college, was a blast!  I will never forget the fun, crazy times I shared with my fellow dorm students. Three weeks after moving into the dorm, I asked a preacher’s daughter named Polly if she wanted to go out on a date with me. She said yes, and forty-three years later, we are still going on dates, loving one another’s company, and roundly irritating the Hell out of each other. Ah, marital bliss.

I could spend hours sharing stories about the good times I experienced at Midwestern. Doing so, of course, would make Tassell happy. Just focus on the positive. Unfortunately, the bad experiences left an indelible impression on my life and that of my wife. For the first time, we saw the ugly, nasty, judgmental underbelly of the IFB church movement. Should I ignore the gay teacher who groomed younger male dorm students? Should I ignore the affair between the wife of the dean of men and a teacher? Should I ignore the rampant illicit sexual activity by dorm students; people who are now pompous, arrogant moralizers? Should I ignore the oppressive rules and repressive disciplinary system? Should I ignore the weak academics and unqualified teachers? Should I ignore the teacher who taught an IFB form of eugenics? Should I ignore the racism of one of the church’s pastors? (All dorm students had to attend nearby Emmanuel Baptist Church, pastored by Tom Malone.) Should I ignore the fact that Tom’s Malone’s wife and children violated the rules the rest of us were expected to obey, under threat of expulsion? Should I ignore being forced to quit a well-paying job, all because the business owner and Tom Malone had a falling out? Should I ignore . . .  You see, it takes the good and the bad to tell a complete story. And as long as I continue to tell my story, I intend to look at the entire structure, and not just the facade that gives readers a false picture of my life, Midwestern Baptist College, and the IFB church movement. That’s the prerogative of the storyteller.

(Please see other posts about Midwestern Baptist College)

About Bruce Gerencser

Bruce Gerencser, 62, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 41 years. He and his wife have six grown children and twelve grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist. For more information about Bruce, please read the About page.

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6 Comments

  1. Troy

    So he was a chaplin…did he wear a bowl hat with a little Hitler mustache?

    At least from what I know by reading your blog, you should have also added how the school tried to strong arm you (and Polly) into staying even though you had a kid on the way and were broke. Claiming it was God’s will no less.

    As for bad mouthing a now defunct college…not sure why he’d care. It isn’t like you’re going to deter someone from going there.

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    1. Grammar Gramma

      Actually, it’ not defunct. It has relocated since Bruce and Tassell went there: https://www.midwesternbaptistcollege.net/

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      1. Troy

        OK, I recall that now. I wasn’t sure if they were the same institution, but apparently they are.

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        1. Bruce Gerencser (Post author)

          The original 55 acre campus was finally sold. The college was moved to a church facility in Orion. In its heyday, Midwestern had 400+ students. Today? Rumor has it that enrollment is less than 50.

          I took time to go through the college’s website. Grossly out of date. I wonder if a shutdown is on the horizon. The college is no longer supported by its graduates. Most Midwestern-trained pastors send their students to colleges other than their alma mater.

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  2. Hugh D. Young

    Keep up the good work, exposing these RATZ & SNEKKS for what they are! Young adults exploring ‘illicit’ sex, and now arrogantly, and likely gleefully condemning ‘fornicators and perverts’ to hell? No surprise at all there. I’ve shared bits and pieces of my ‘stay’ in the Celebrate Recovery movement, along with all of the hypocritical double standards, and self righteous arrogance that comes right along with the program. 2 sets of rules, 1 for the ‘Royal Family’, (ie NONE), and the other for the ‘peasantry’? Well geeeee willikerrz, I’m shocked! The sooner organized, institutionalized religion falls apart and vanishes, with it’s harmful, dangerous teachings and influence, the better off we’ll all be.

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  3. ObstacleChick

    The now defunct fundamentalist Christian school I attended has a Facebook group for former faculty and students. We aren’t allowed to say anything bad about the school. But in my opinion, abuses should be called out, as people at Liberty University are now doing.

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