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Questions: Bruce, Do You Know Many Ex-Evangelical Preachers?


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Davie from Glasgow asked:

I have a quick one that you surely will already have answered somewhere but I just can’t recall – It’s clear that you are a particularly singular fellow Bruce but in your time (maybe most likely through this blog) have you come across any other people that were also once evangelical/fundamentalist PREACHERS for any length of time before deconverting and becoming agnostics/atheists? Or are you as unique as you seem??

I was an Evangelical pastor for twenty-five years. I left Christianity at the age of fifty. I am now an atheist and a humanist. According to my counselor — whom I have seen for a decade — I am a rare bird. While it is not uncommon for clergypersons to leave the ministry or deconvert, most do so when they are in their twenties or thirties. The longer a man (or woman) is in the ministry, the less likely he is to cash in his chips and walk away. By the time a man is in his forties or fifties, he has invested decades in pastoring churches. He may have a 401k. He likely has no viable work skills outside of the church. His entire life has been invested in the work of the ministry. He may have doubts, but he says to himself, “what else am I going to do?” The existence of The Clergy Project is a testament to the fact that more than a few churches are pastored by men who no longer believe.

I have interacted and corresponded with countless ex-pastors over the years — Evangelical and mainline clerics alike. I know several men who were in the ministry longer than me, but, for the most part, most ex-preachers I know spent far less time in the ministry than I did. Anecdotally, I think the number of men and women leaving church positions is increasing. COVID-19 only increased the number of clergypeople saying that they have had enough. Not all ex-pastors left due to a loss of faith. Some left because they were tired of endless church drama, board fights, and other soul-numbing dysfunction. A handful of ex-preachers I know left the ministry because they admitted to themselves and others that they were gay.

I am often asked why I stayed in the ministry for so many years. I was a true believer, a saved, sanctified, born-again follower of Jesus Christ, the virgin-born, sinless, crucified, resurrected eternal son of the one true God. I never meaningfully doubted or questioned my beliefs until I was in my late 40s. However, when I determined I no longer believed the central claims of Christianity were true, it was not difficult for me to walk away from the ministry. First, I was tired. Second, my health was deteriorating. Third, I never made much money pastoring churches ($26,000 was the most I made any one year). I always made more money working secular jobs. And fourth, I have never been a good liar. I knew I couldn’t be a “fake it until you make it” Christian, a hypocritical pastor. So, when it came time for me to leave the ministry and later Christianity itself, I did not quietly exit stage left. (Please see Dear Family, Friends, and Former Parishioners.) With my face turned towards an unknown future, I walked away from the church, never to return. I don’t regret walking away. In retrospect, if I would have had some inkling about what my future held, I would have certainly prepared better for a post-Jesus, post-ministry life. But, it is what it is. All I know is to make the most of what life I have left. (Please see The Midwestern Baptist College Preacher Who Became an Atheist.)


Bruce Gerencser, 65, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 44 years. He and his wife have six grown children and thirteen grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist.

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    Well, Bruce, you’ve certainly helped and inspired many people to walk away from toxic Christianity. That’s a pretty darn good cause!

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    dad walked away from the ministry but was still christian just not attending church anymore. he was happy and had a good job, starting saving etc. but mom threw a fit after several years and insisted they attend church again. he did it for her. now he’s dead and she continues to attend and throw out insults to those of us who do not go to church. then she wonders why most of us avoid her. her fear and anxiety about hell are destroying her. she made his last years more difficult by insisting on church when he was happier just doing his own thing. this is the sad result of cult indoctrination. thanks for exposing all this.

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    Yulya Sevelova

    Yup ! I understand that position completely,where even if you don’t dump the faith– you happily dump the rest of that lifestyle,like church. I see examples of nutjobs everywhere,who are immersed in that situation. Church attendance ruined my life, and many others, just by bunging- up basic decision making. I lost the ability to think. I simply reacted to life, like an amoeba,lol !🤮🤮

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    I found you through the Clergy Project while I was actively deconstructing. Your writing style and wealth of knowledge and experience resonated (still does). I think it was through your recommendation that I started reading Bart Ehrman – I had read other authors, but his works are the easiest for laypeople to understand, in my opinion.

    I was shocked at the numbers of ex-clergy – now it seems that a huge number of clergy are leaving. The Trump years and treatment of covid have exposed the utter rot in evangelical churches. There is no denying how thoroughly evangelicalism is wrapped up in authoritarian Christian nationalism, white supremacy, misogyny, anti-LGBTQ sentiment, and raw obsession with power.

    It’s huge that you left when you did.

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    Davie from Glasgow

    Thanks for the interesting response Bruce. The Clergy Project is also a fascinating resource that I wasn’t actually previously aware of.

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    J. P.

    Sadly some of the responses to you sound hateful towards Christians in general. Where would we be without all the ghetto missions, food pantries, salvation army, compassion international etc. Which are run and supported by serious Christians.

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      J. P., Christians don’t own charity. Non-believers are just as supportive and giving, but we generally don’t run around crowing “Hey, look at us! We’re atheists who donate to the food bank!”

      We also don’t attach sectarian baggage to our gifts. All too many recipients of Christian charity have had to endure crap like “Bow your head in prayer to thank God for this weak coffee and day-old donated donut you are about to receive.” >:-(

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      I suspect that some of those ghetto missions, food pantries, Salvation Army, and other charitable organizations are supported and ran by serious non Christians too. So then what is your point?

      Where would we be today without all of the slavery, indigenous genocide and re-education, Jim Crow racism, misogyny, anti-semitism, etc that were led and supported by serious Christians?

      Where would we be today without all of the anti gay laws and rhetoric, calling AIDs gods response to gay sinners, ignoring the suffering of thousands, the abuse of conversion therapy, or laws passed to eradicate large swaths of the LGBTQ community, etc, which are led and supported by serious Christians?

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      J.P., this is an atheist blog. Most of us were Christians, and have seen a lot of bad behavior from former fellow Christians. Having said that, I doubt anyone here will say we mean EVERY CHRISTIAN. I am friends with several pastors of different denominations, and they are good and sincere people. But the loud, angry evangelical/fundie Christians are drowning out the voices of “good” Christians. Maybe the “good” Christians could step up instead of ignoring and normalizing MAGA/Christian/QAnon behavior. No one respects these types of Christians, no one goes “Oh, but they are sincere in their beliefs” since they have shown EN MASSE that they are fine with power, and greed, and the powerful stepping on the powerless. If you are one of these types, then if you feel bad reading what we say…GOOD.

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