What One Catholic Doctor Taught Me About Christianity

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Dr. William Fiorini

In the 1960’s, the Gerencser family moved to California, the land of promise and a pot of gold at the end of every rainbow. Like many who traveled west, my parents found out that life in San Diego was not much different from the life they left in rural NW Ohio. Like in Ohio, my Dad worked sales jobs and drove truck. For the Gerencser family, the pot of gold was empty and three or so years later we left California and moved back to Bryan, Ohio.

While moving to California and back proved to be a financial disaster for my parents, they did find Jesus at Scott Memorial Baptist Church in San Diego, a fundamentalist church pastored by Tim LaHaye. Both of my parents made a profession of faith at Scott Memorial, as did I when I was five years old. From this point forward, the Gerencser family, no matter where we lived, attended a fundamentalist Baptist church.

Not only were my parents fundamentalist Baptists, they were also members of the John Birch Society. While in California, my Mom actively campaigned for Barry Goldwater, and later, back in Ohio, she campaigned for George Wallace. Right wing religious and political beliefs were very much a part of my young life, so it should come as no surprise that I turned out to be a fire-breathing right-wing Republican and a fundamentalist Baptist preacher.

If the Baptist church taught me anything, it taught me to hate Catholics. According to my Sunday School teachers and pastors, and later my college professors and colleagues, the Catholic church was the whore of Babylon, a false church, the church of Satan and the Antichrist. I was taught that Catholics believed in salvation by works and believed many things that weren’t found in the Bible. Things like: purgatory, church magisterium, Pope is the Vicar of Christ, transubstantiation, infant baptism, confirmation, priests not permitted to marry, praying to statutes, worshiping the dead , and worshiping Mary. These things were never put in any sort of historical context for me, so by the time I left Midwestern Baptist College in 1979, I was a certified hater of all things Catholic.

In 1991, something happened that caused me to reassess my view of Catholics. My dogma ran head-on into a Catholic that didn’t fit my narrow, bigoted beliefs. In 1989, our fourth child and first daughter was born. We named her Bethany. Our family doctor was William Fiorini. He operated the Somerset Medical Clinic in Somerset, Ohio, the same town where I pastored Somerset Baptist Church.  Dr. Fiorini was a devout Catholic, a post Vatican II Catholic who had been greatly influenced by the charismatic revival that swept through the Catholic church in the 1970’s and 1980’s. He was a kind and compassionate man. He knew our family didn’t have insurance or much money and more than a few times the treatment slip turned in after a visit said N/C. (no charge)

Bethany seemed quite normal at first. It wasn’t until she was sixteen months old that we began to see things that worried us. Her development was slow and she couldn’t walk. One evening, we drove over to Charity Baptist Church in Beavercreek, Ohio to attend a Bible conference. The woman watching the nursery asked us about Bethany having Down Syndrome. Down Syndrome? Out little girl wasn’t retarded. How dare this woman even suggest that there was something wrong with our daughter.

Bethany continued to struggle, reaching development stages months after infants and toddlers typically do. Finally, we went to see Dr. Fiorini. He suggested that we have Bethany genetically tested. We took her over to Ohio State University Hospital for the test and a few weeks later, just days before Bethany’s second birthday and the birth of our daughter Laura, we received a phone call from Dr. Fiorini. He told us the test results were back and he wanted to talk to us about them. He told us to come to his office after he finished seeing patients for the day and he would sit down and talk with us about the test results.

The test showed that Bethany had Down Syndrome. Her Down Syndrome features were so mild that the obstetrician missed it. Here we were two years later finding out that our oldest daughter had a serious mental handicap.  Our Catholic doctor, a man I thought was a member of the church Satan built and headed for hell, sat down with us, and with great love and compassion, shared the test results. He told us that many miscarriages are fetuses with Down Syndrome, and that it was evident that God wanted to bless us with a special child like Bethany. He answered every question and treated us he would a member of his own family.

This Catholic didn’t fit my narrow, bigoted picture of what a Catholic was. Here was a man who loved people, who came to an area that had one the highest poverty and unemployment rates in Ohio and started a one doctor practice. (he later added a Nurse practitioner, a nun who treated us when we couldn’t get in to see the doctor) He worked selflessly to help everyone he could. On more than one occasion, I would drive by him on the highway as his wife shuttled him from Zanesville to Lancaster, the locations of the nearest hospitals. Often, he was slumped over and asleep in the passenger’s seat. He was the kind of doctor who gave me his home phone number and said to call him if I ever needed his help. He told us there was no need to take our kids to the emergency room for stitches or broken bones. He would gladly stitch them up, even if we didn’t have an appointment.

Dr. Fiorini wasn’t perfect. One time, he almost killed me. He regularly treated me for throat infections, ear infections, and the like. Preaching as often as I did, I abused my voice box and throat. I have enlarged adenoids and tonsils and I breathe mostly through my mouth. As a result, I battled throat and voice problems my entire preaching career. One day, I came to see Dr. Fiorini for a-n-o-t-h-e-r  throat infection. He prescribed an antibiotic and told me to take it easy. He knew, like himself, I was a work-a-holic and would likely ignore his take it easy advice. Take the drug, wait a few weeks, and just like always I would be good as new.  However, this time it didn’t work. Over the course of two months, as I got sicker and sicker, he tried different treatments. Finally, he did some additional testing and found out I had mononucleosis; the kissing disease for teens, a deadly disease for a thirty four year old. Two days later, I was in the hospital with a 104 degree fever, a swollen spleen and liver, and an immune system on the verge of collapse.

An internist came in to talk with my wife and I. He told us that if my immune system didn’t pick up and fight there was nothing he could do. Fortunately, my body fought back and I am here to write about it. My bout with mononucleosis dramatically altered my immune system, making me susceptible to bacterial and viral infection. A strange result of the mononucleosis was that my normal body temperature dropped from 98.6 to 97.0. I lost 50 pounds and was unable to preach for several months.

Once I was back on my feet, Dr, Fiorini apologized to me for missing the mononucleosis. I was shocked by his admission. He showed me true humility by admitting his mistake. I wish I could say that I immediately stopped hating Catholics and condemning them to hell, but it would be several years before I finally came to the place where I embraced everyone who called themselves a Christian. In late 1990’s, while pastoring Our Father’s House in West Unity, Ohio, I embraced what is commonly called the social gospel. Doctrine no longer mattered to me. Moving from a text oriented belief system, I began to focus on good works. Tell me how you live. Better yet, show me, and in the showing, a Catholic doctor taught me what it really meant to be a Christian.

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9 Comments

  1. Steve

    Sounds like a REAL doctor & not a money-grabbing, capitalist asshole; wish he were around here.

    What happened to him? Does he still treat you?

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    1. Bruce Gerencser (Post author)

      He’s retired, lives in Columbus. We moved away in 1994.

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  2. Karen

    Raised Catholic, I was aware that some Protestant Christians looked down on us. Certainly my mom-in-law, an Evangelical Christian, was deeply uncomfortable with her son marrying a Catholic girl in a Catholic church. (I think she’d rather that I were still Catholic than the atheist I am now, but those are the breaks.) When I asked other Catholics what the problem was, they said that the Protestant Reformation happened because the Catholic Church was very corrupt; the Church had fixed itself since; but old enmities die hard.

    I understand much more now about the differences between Evangelical/Fundamentalist Christians, Liberal Christians, and Catholics (they have conservative and liberal subgroups, too). But especially when Mike and I started talking marriage, I was totally puzzled. My future in-laws seemed to like me, so what was the problem?

    Now, after 35 years, the in-laws declare me to be a great blessing to the family, atheism notwithstanding. But religion gave us a rocky start.

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  3. khughes1963

    Interesting you mentioned Tim LaHaye’s church. LaHaye was a Bircher at one point too, and he seems to have clung to their ideology all along. Dr. Fiorini sounds like a wonderful man and physician.

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  4. howitis

    Dr. Fiorini sounds like a man who exemplifies what Christianity should be all about (what all humanity should be about, actually.) I’m a lot more impressed with people who actually live their beliefs, rather than just talk the talk while doing the exact opposite.

    Several years ago, one of my cousins was put on bedrest due to pregnancy complications. Her husband had to take on a second job because she had to quit hers, so he wasn’t around much. They were young kids who didn’t have much money, and there was no help coming from her family; her fundie Christian parents basically disowned her because she got pregnant before marriage, and her husband was the wrong color and the wrong faith (Samoan and Baha’i.) At the time she was still Christian, and lots of people at her church said they were “praying for her,” but no one actually lifted a finger to do anything. It was her in-laws, and their Baha’i friends, who actually stepped up to help. They brought her books to read and movies to watch, they helped her with laundry and housekeeping, they brought over meals and picked up groceries for her when they were out shopping for themselves, they even drove her to doctor appointments a couple of times when her husband was unable to. The fact that they actually lived their faith and showed compassion and care instead of just talking talk was the main reason my cousin eventually left Christianity and became a Baha’i herself.

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    1. Becky Wiren

      I’ve heard the Baha’i believe in equality, not patriarchy, and other good doctrines. Your cousin was fortunate to have her new family.

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  5. Sister CAritas Strodthoff, ARchivist Holy Family Convent

    To Bruce, if you still read these posts. I remember Bethany! I’m the nun/nurse practitioner that took care of her. I was searching for Dr. Fiorini’s whereabouts and came across his picture on your article. He was a very remarkable man and a wonderful physician. I retired from nursing last year and now work as the archivist for our community in Manitowoc, Wisconsin. I loved my days in Perry County and learned so much from every patient I cared for. I’ve been gone from there since 1996…and I still miss the people and the work. Bless you for writing this article and praising him. He surely deserved it. And thank you for mentioning me, too!! But I do remember her. If you read this and know where Bill is located, please let me know. Thank you.

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  6. Tony

    Raised in the RC church and attended a RC school from grade 2 through grade 6. My parents could not afford the tuition so the church allowed my dad (an atheist) work in exchange. From 7th on it was public school because the RC higher grades were too far away (a guess). Mom was more of a cultural RC by then which may have had something to do with it.
    The nuns preached pretty much the same thing as the IF folks. The (insert religion name here) religion wasn’t the TRUE religion. We were instructed not to attend other religion’s services and if attending a wedding or some other type event we were not to sing or otherwise participate.
    Everybody at this RC church, the priests, nuns and laity were straight up selfless and good people. This was in Miami during Pedro Pan and the Diocese did its part to help those kids. Eventually the church built an orphanage next to the school and most of those living there were because of Pedro Pan. They even had a priest who escaped Castro’s murderous thugs. This Priest spoke no English – I spoke no Spanish. Served mass (in Latin, thankyouverymuch) with him many times at 0600 with maybe 3 people in attendance – if anyone. (Priests were supposed to say mass every day.) Early mass was great – quick – no sermon and communion took all of 2-3 minutes. During all this time I never saw or heard of anything improper. Sad to say I guess I was lucky.
    Later on I was introduced to the “All you need is Jesus” crowd. Made sense to me and I believed – and was baptized – again. Later discovered this group was led by someone who was a child molester. Over time I have grown to accept that people that do bad things are everywhere and those that want to control always seem to have their holy book as proof they are THE ONE TRUE CHURCH.
    Reading the many postings here has confirmed what I believe. Anyone that tells you he/she has the answers – DOESN’T – it’s all about control. The only prophesy I’ve heard that proved accurate was “you will most likely die an old man”. This was in response to me trying to tell an atheist that Jesus was coming back soon and he better listen to me.
    “…many false prophets are gone out into the world”. Indeed

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    1. Bruce Gerencser (Post author)

      That was indeed a true prophecy. 😀

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