I’ve Concluded That Many Local Evangelicals are Assholes

I want to believe that the Evangelical Christians I sit next to at high school football and basketball games are good people. I want to believe that they are nice, thoughtful people who care about their families and neighbors. I want to believe this . . . I really do, but it is coming increasingly evident that many of my Evangelical neighbors are assholes.

Many of my Evangelical neighbors routinely attack, savage, and denigrate gay people, transgender people, unbelievers, and those who support reproductive rights. And if they don’t explicitly adhere to it, they support churches, preachers, and politicians that do. These people say that they are followers of the Prince of Peace, all the while promoting and supporting I.C.E., law enforcement, and military violence. Let me be clear: what and who we support says a lot about what we really believe and value. What does the behavior of my Evangelical neighbors say about them?

Today, I followed several local discussions on Facebook about poverty and people losing their SNAP benefits. Most Evangelical commenters showed that they have no idea what Jesus (or the Bible as a whole) taught about these things. Their comments revealed ugly, selfish libertarian or MAGA political values. It’s hard not to conclude that my neighbors are Christians in name only; that their politics supersede and dominate their moral and ethical values. If behavior matters, the only conclusion I can come to is that many of my Evangelical neighbors are assholes. Want to change my mind? Do better, starting with feeding the poor, caring for immigrants, and putting an end to I.C.E.’s reign of terror. Until then, your Jesus has nothing to offering people like me.

Bruce Gerencser, 69, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 48 years. He and his wife have six grown children and thirteen grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist.

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11 responses to “I’ve Concluded That Many Local Evangelicals are Assholes”

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    Revival “Proves Bruce’s Point” Fires

    Revival “Proves Bruce’s Point” Fires sent me four such comments today. As an Evangelical Christian, he should be praying, reading the Bible, and serving Jesus. Instead, he’s busy proclaiming his assholery.

    At local library homo drag queens out on a story time.

    Benita was the reader. Fergie knocked over his water and it got in the microphone wiring. It electrocuted Benita!!!!

    (ELECTRICITY ⚡️ CRACKLES )

    BENITA: AHHHHHH AHHHHHHH 😖 ARGHHHHHHH!!!!! RUERRRRRRR!!!!!!!!

    Collapses.

    He Lit up like a Christmas tree on the 4th of July 😟😬

    Dead after about 30 seconds and he wasn’t saved. 😭

  2. BJW

    What a nasty, repulsive person.

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    Yulya Sevelova

    Who is R&F talking about?? He’s not making any sense.

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      His goal is to be disgusting, offensive, and violent — a true Christian, right? 🤣🤣

      Sadly, there are more Revival Fires’ in the world than we dare to admit; sociopaths who love offending people and causing harm.

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        GeoffT

        Combined with being permanently drunk!

  4. Aram McLean

    Yes, there can be no other conclusion when it comes to the vast majority of evangelicals. One could debate why they’re such assholes, from how they were raised combined with their particular genetic traits, and perhaps even come to understand how their shitty personalities happened. But the outcome is the same regardless: They are assholes who get off on other people being hurt. And I want nothing to do with them.

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    I don’t understand what Revival Fires is going on about. It sounds like 6th grade attempts at humor or storytelling.

    Bruce, the title of your post led me to think, “Duh, ya think?” Of course, I read the post and agree. I know evangelicals think they’re “teaching the truth in love”, but they’re really just being a$$holes.

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    I don’t understand what Revival Fires is going on about. It sounds like 6th grade attempts at humor or storytelling.

    Bruce, the title of your post led me to think, “Duh, ya think?” Of course, I read the post and agree. I know evangelicals think they’re “teaching the truth in love”, but they’re really just being a$$holes.

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      Jimmy

      The stories told by Revival Fires sound familiar to plotlines in Chick Tracts. I would wager real money that RF is an IFB-er. Maybe even of the Peter Ruckman variety, a particularly nasty strain of Christianity.

  7. this is precisely why i refer to them as “christians” or “so-called christians”. such people give a bad name to the whole lot of them.

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      Indeed– some remind me of how Rabbit was in the final scenes of Winnie-The-Pooh and Tigger Too from 1974 (a Disney cartoon I saw quite a few times from an old VHS I had as a child; never can go back to it now), in that Tigger had promised to stop bouncing, only when he got down from a tree he was stuck in, to be at first cruelly held to that promise by Rabbit, before Rabbit realized that bouncing is part of who Tigger was, and walked it back (Tigger getting down out of the tree is like someone giving their life to Him, and Rabbit is like the Evangelical preacher who makes it as difficult as possible to live the life in Him; also, when Rabbit says, “Not even a smidgen of a bounce,” that comes across like the Evangelical preacher who would forbid even a single scrap of secular entertainment, regardless of content or format, because the life was given to Him, and God, in that preacher’s view, strictly forbids it).

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