The “Why?” Question

Many Americans never asked “why” after Muslims hijacked planes and flew them into buildings on 9-11.

Many Americans never asked “why” after Hamas killed over 1,200 Israelis on 10-7 — most of them civilians— and kidnapped several hundred people.

And now the United States is waging war against Iran, and few Americans bother to ask “why?”

The U.S. government is currently controlled by fascists, oligarchs, theocrats, and technocrats. Donald Trump and his feckless, immoral administration only care about personal financial enrichment and political power. Trump, Vance, Rubio, Hegseth, and company show no care or regard for the American people. These fascists self-righteously say they are protecting the American people from nuclear weapons and Muslim terrorism. Never asked is “why?”

Robert “I’ve Got a Brain Worm” Kennedy, Jr., has decimated Health & Human Services and is currently promoting distortions, conspiracy theories, and lies about vaccines, COVID, autism, and dietary guidelines. Why aren’t more Americans asking “why?”

Donald Trump is doing away with federal support of wind and solar power, giving millions of dollars to oil, natural gas, and coal companies. Dare we ask, “why”?

Americans tend not to be too big on answering the question “why?” Why? 😅 Cuz, we are AMERICANS! We are a people divinely chosen by the Christian God of the Bible. We are a shining light on a hill for all the world to see. Manifest destiny! Might makes right, right? Right? There’s no need to ask “why?” when God is on your side and you are always right.

Name the last president who admitted to the American people he was wrong. Trump, for instance, has never been wrong. He’s an expert on e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g, including swimming pools, ballrooms, and grass. Trump doesn’t apologize to anyone. Instead, he blames others for his mistakes, failures, and errors in judgment. Trump is an impetuous man who cannot and will not tell the truth, even when a lie is not necessary. Does anyone doubt, then, that Trump NEVER asks “why?” (And the same can be said for MAGA in general.)

Post-Jesus, answering the “why” question has been vital in helping me better understand the country and world I live in. And let me be clear, understanding both is essential to a well-rounded view of the world. If all we wear are Pro-American glasses we are going to have a false, truncated view of the world. This is why the majority of Americans are illiterate about countries, peoples, religions, and politics outside of the United States.

Sadly, way too many Americans wrongly think the answer to the question, “Why do so many people hate us?” is “We’re America!!!!! And other countries hate the American Dream and our way of life!” Rarely do Americans step beyond the facade and wrestle with the hard questions about what our nation has become and why.

As an Evangelical-pastor-turned-atheist, I am seldom asked “why?” by my critics, who ignore my attempts to answer the question without them asking. Their minds are made up, so there’s no reason to ask me “why” or read my biographical writing. In their minds, “The Bible says,” end of discussion. What they really mean, of course, is that their churches, pastors, and favorite podcast hosts interpret the Bible for them. Most Evangelicals do not daily read the Bible, and their go-to source for Bible knowledge is their pastors — who rarely preach exegetical sermons and are more focused on “felt needs.” The goal? Make people happy and their wallets lighter.

If we are going to be skeptics, it is essential for us to ask “why?” even if the answers we receive are painful to hear. Part of the deconstruction process for me required asking “why” questions. I suspect that was or is the same for many of you. Evangelicalism taught us to trust and never doubt, especially in matters of faith. Want to be “happy in Jesus”? There’s only one way: “Trust and obey, for there’s no other way to be happy in Jesus.” Of course, the “obey” part is conditioned on obedience to the theological edicts of pastors and churches. Never ask “why,” just obey.

Over the years, attempting to answer “why” questions has taken me down many paths, forcing me to confront my ignorance, biases, and bullheadedness. When the “why” question arises, I try my best to answer it, regardless of what I might find.

Motivations matter to me. Personally, anyway, it was not enough to rage against Islam when Muslims flew planes into buildings on 9-11. “Why” did they do this? Is the United States culpable in any way? What about the “war on terror” that followed, to this day? Dare we ask “why” the United States is waging war on multiple fronts, killing scores of innocents with our bombs and bullets? So much so that we are running out of munitions and Hegseth is asking for billions of dollars of additional war funding. Surely you aren’t so stupid as to believe all the violence, bloodshed, and war crimes are “protecting the American way of life.” Do you feel safe? Now that undocumented immigrants are literally running for their lives, are we better off as a nation? Asking “why” about these issues and others is essential if there’s any chance for the “land of the free, and the home of the brave” to survive.

Please share your pithy thoughts in the comment section. And if you don’t, let me ask, “Why?”? 😜😜

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10 responses to “The “Why?” Question”

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    John S.

    We are and have been a very black and white binary society in the US. “You are either with us or against us”, “Right is right and wrong is wrong”, etc. I always found Pontus Pilate’s dialogue with Jesus fascinating because it included the question, “What is Truth?”.

    Here is my evolving view of (primarily Muslim) terrorism- the answer can be “both and” and not “either or”. I can condemn atrocities like 9-11 and October 7th while still advocating for dialogue and solutions to the underlying historical issues that gave rise to Hamas and Al Qaeda. Unfortunately in our culture we are all about the righteous war, the violent response to violence, so much so that we end up cutting our nose off to spite our face, as my late father would say.

    I think the current mess we are in with Iran is the ultimate culmination of our one trick pony response to our conflicts with the Muslim world. And no, I am not giving Islam in general a “pass” over its historical conquest mentality or instances where it is administered in an abusive manner, but if that’s the case historic Christianity shouldn’t be given a pass either. See how that works? By generalizing all current Muslims based on things done in the past, you open the door to scrutiny of your own religion.

    I often ponder why Jesus advocated for passivity in the Gospels. I believe I’m starting to understand why. When you allow yourself to be taken in by righteous indignation, religious and political conflicts, etc, you end up becoming more of a monster than the one you are fighting.

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      John S. “We are and have been a very black and white binary society in the US. “You are either with us or against us”, ”

      Zoe: John? Isn’t this a Biblical message? “You are either with us or against us.” The reason for the “black and white binary.”

      John S. : “I often ponder why Jesus advocated for passivity in the Gospels.”

      Zoe: Passivity? I understand where you are going here. For me, I only see a dichotomy. The Flood, Revelation; the brutality and violence in the Bible. both “O.T.” and “N.T.”

      I think many don’t ask “Why?” because they don’t have to. What is the core message of the religion. “You are either with us or against us.”

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        John S.

        Hello Zoe. Good questions as always. When I mentioned, “you are either with us or against us”, I was more thinking about statements made (at least I think statements like these were made- my memory isn’t what it used to be 😄) when we began our Global War on Terrorism following the 9/11 attack, but you’re absolutely right, it is definitely a Biblical message too.
        Many Christians will not see past this dichotomy because they feel Muslims hate them They don’t want to acknowledge that maybe there are valid reasons for that resentment.
        I will say my limited contact with Muslims have been very positive despite the heaviness of our shared history.
        I wonder sometimes if I’m more of a secular humanist than anything else I claim to be. I want humanity to live together in harmony and happiness in this life. Asking “Why?”, and accepting the brutal and honest answers are a first step in that direction, at least in my humble opinion.

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          I prefer secular humanist for myself. Like you, it seems, we want to live in peace.

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    Bruce: “Americans tend not to be too big on answering the question “why?” Why? 😅 Cuz, we are AMERICANS! We are a people divinely chosen by the Christian God of the Bible. We are a shining light on a hill for all the world to see. Manifest destiny! Might makes right, right? Right? There’s no need to ask “why?” when God is on your side and you are always right.”

    Zoe: Excellent post and this part here. On the surface it looks so complicated. Underneath it appears quite simple. ‘We’re the best. God said so. I’m right because He is right. I will ask “Why?” when I get there.’

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    Bruce, –
    What a thought provoking thread! Thank you for “it”.
    My response: Diving deep here:

    Why? Let me list the ways:

    It is laughable to me how the Facist, MAGA, Christian Nationalist Movement, Republicans and Conservatives in general use the terms “woke”, to define liberals, progressives and socialism, as some type of “Mark of Cain”.
    This is nothing more than a Goebbels, Stalinist or any other repressive, totalitarian regimes playbook for “marking” persons whom actually have a brain, study or have a sense o history, that question the authority and actions of a regime in power. While the term “truth” in and of itself is open to interpretation, historical facts, vis a vie, the number of dead people, graves, personal accounts, written accounts, and pictures and film are rather difficult to hide and conceal from those that investigate.

    One must acknowledge (MAGA does not) the stunning and shocking truth about the progenitors of American Civilization. From the moment Columbus landed somewhere in the Caribbean, to the present day, our culture has been defined by those that arrived, (UN-Invited) I would add, in the 15th, 16th and 17th centuries.

    What DID our ancestors do? From those whence we come from in the initial centuries? MURDER, SLAVERY, and above all RESOURCE EXPLOITATION. Our ancestors destroyed countless, settled, Indigenous tribes and cultures.
    This then, was the START of what we were to become. Disgustingly this was JUSTIFIED by the religious as “Saving Souls for Christ”.

    Consider reading The TURNER THESIS – which explains the term “MANIFEST DESTINY”. Which was The 18th and 19th century American and Canadian version of Spanish, Portuguese, English and French Colonialism, in the United States and Canada, with the express purpose of “stealing from” and annihilating native peoples, from sea to shinning sea.

    While it would be intellectually dishonest to label every European or non native American that ever got off a boat and set foot on this continent as a blood thirsty, murdering, Indian killing barbarian, the Governments involved, that controlled (through the military or policing) the geography from the Arctic to Terra Del Fuego, most certainly were, when you get right down to it. This was the example, provided every person, and it wasn’t exactly easy on most (By far the majority) of those that got off those boats. Just ask the Chinese, The Irish, and of course the Africans. This information makes MAGA / Christian Nationalists upset when discussed, much less taught. It does not quite fit the loving, righteous, Christian narrative that bible thumper’s love to tout.

    ISLAM/JEWS/CHRISTIANS:
    I am certainly no scholar of Islam, nor do I wish to be, finding any branch (cult/sect), of Abrahamic Religions, to be worthless to humanity considering their acceptance of the supernatural, and use of mind control over people for adherence, however I do find it uniquely interesting the evolution of “Christian” and “Islamic” treatment of Jews.

    Perhaps the MAGA / Christian Nationalist (Jew Loving) ideologues should briefly consider these historically documented facts: (Let me count the ways): Lets not forget Christians call Jews the “Christ Killer”.
    The first crusade: 1096 – The Rhine and Danube Slaughter
    The second crusade: 1147 – France
    England: 1290
    France again: 1396
    Austria / Poland: 1421
    The Black Death: All OVER Europe: 1347 / 1351
    The Spanish Inquisition: 1492 and 1502

    and on and on and on into:

    WW1
    WW2 The well documented “Holocaust” by the German “Christian” nation.

    While Muslims (Islam) did their share of “Jew Killing” historically speaking, interestingly
    ISLAM also has a record on Jewish tolerance in many locations over the centuries, and when compared
    with European “Christian” nations were significantly less aggressive toward it’s Jewish inhabitants.

    And The United States – (LMAO), was very hostile toward Jews, culturally speaking, up until the UN resolution allowing the formation of the Jewish State of Israel. Even then, it may be argued, that conservative “love” for the Jew, did not take the hypocritical form it currently expresses, by the maga legions and their conservative politicians, which began to manifest itself starting in the late 60’s and early 70’s. I wonder why that happened? It wouldn’t have anything to do with the exchange of capital by special interest groups would it?

    What was it Al Gore said about Climate change? An inconvenient truth.

    Now before I am branded antisemitic, I am not, but I am VERY MUCH against the current despotic regime in control of Israel and their policies, as I am with the current American gangsters in control of the United States Govt.

  4. Hey Bruce, great post and great question. I was an evangelical Christian for most of my life. I “de-constructed” just a few years ago and I’m still kind of trying to figure out who I am without God and Jesus and all the brain washing. Right now, I basically try to live my life as a humanist. But basically, my brain has only really been working for a few years now. But one of the things that I’m still working on is asking why. “Why?” is actually how my journey out of religion started. A good friend of mine, who was a Christian, asked me once, “why do I have to give 10% of my income to a church?” He and I then did a pretty long, in-depth study on what we were taught about tithing. Shockingly, we found out that it’s not anywhere in the Bible! That got me thinking, what else isn’t in there? Which led me to asking lots of “why?” questions. That’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Like you said in this post, “If we are going to be skeptics, it is essential for us to ask “why?” even if the answers we receive are painful to hear.”
    For most people, it’s easier to just keep going along with what they’ve always gone along with. I totally get that. It is easier. Until it affects someone directly. I see news reports about hard core Trump supporters whose US citizen family member gets arrested by ICE. All of a sudden, they start questioning their allegiance to Trump.
    I’m sure there are many reasons why Americans don’t ask why. I certainly don’t know them all and I’m not sure how or if it can be changed.
    I think of George Carlin’s 2005 special; Life Is Worth Losing. Especially when he starts talking about the American dream and how you have to be asleep to believe it. Maybe most of America has just been lulled to sleep? I would guess that many think that life’s not perfect, but it’s not terrible and they don’t want to make it worse by rocking the boat.
    I’m looking forward to other’s thoughts on this post. Especially if someone has suggestions on how we can get more people in America to ask why.

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    Benny S

    Bruce, I’m currently reading a book that sort of explains “why” Americans are the way we are. The contents are an abbreviated history of the US, starting out with the first British arrivals from the 1500s. And the author’s personal style leans more toward a cheeky commentary rather than being dryly academic. Published in 2017, but still relevant due to The Great Pumpkin-Colored One’s return to the White House.

    Title: Fantasyland – How American Went Haywire – A 500-Year History (By Kurt Andersen)

  6. I don’t know about everyone else, but I was told many, many times in school that ‘the US is the BEST COUNTRY in the world!’. There was never any reason given as to why, but it was what everyone said. I didn’t question it until much later in life. I still hear it on TV, from people I know… and still no idea why they say that other than the same tribalism that has us sticking with our own kind, whether religious, racial, gender, sports teams, school mascots… endless list and the thing they all have in common is that ol’ rah rah MY TEAM thing.

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      Benny S

      Ami, I have an additional ‘common-trait’ theory. As attributed to P.T. Barnum, but there’s no evidence that P.T. actually said this:

      “There’s a sucker born every minute.”

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