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Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo: Missionary Position Only or You Will Go to Hell

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Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo

Olugbenga Oladejo is the pastor of Complete in Christ Church, an Evangelical congregation in Orton Waterville, Peterborough, England. The church’s website states, Complete in Christ Church is:

an end-time church dedicated to holiness, righteousness, prayers and deliverance ministries. We are committed to going to heaven and to minister to as many souls as are ready to go to heaven. We recognise the signs of the end as explained by our Lord Jesus Christ that the love of many shall wax cold (Matthew 24) as we can see in our days. Therefore we teach sinners to repent and children of God to be ready like the wise virgins (Matthew 25).

The Lord Jesus Christ set up this church to bring his children back to the ancient landmark which must not be removed. Proverbs 22:28. That is why in Complete in Christ Church we teach holiness and righteousness and abhor all forms of worldliness. We teach children of God to live holy life within and without. When you join us, our beginners class to discipleship class will show you biblical basis of holy living, Psalm15.

Our commitment to holy living is also extended towards outward appearance in our dressings as we discourage all forms of immoral dressings and bodily adornments among men and women.

Complete in Christ Church is a full deliverance ministries where prayers that move mountain are answered by our Lord Jesus Christ. Our services are always full of power of the Holy Spirit with apostolic signs and wonders. Holy Spirit will teach your hands to war, so that a bow of steel is broken by your arms (Psalm 18:34).

In complete in Christ Church we lift up and glorify our Lord Jesus Christ only in all we do For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily. And ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power (Colosians2:9-10).

According to Pastor Oladejo, any married couple that has sex in any other position but the missionary position with the man on top will not inherit the kingdom of God. Doggie style? Hell! Masturbation? Hell! Your sex life may be hot now, but use any position but the missionary position and you will end up in hell!

Here’s some of the godly sex advice Oladejo gives to married people:

The lord told me, “look, when I asked my children to get married… on their matrimonial bed, they commit a lot of immorality.” He said I should tell them that they are not going to heaven. There is an everlasting covenant. Those who break that everlasting covenant are not going to make it into heaven.

Couples who practice the woman on top… I want to repeat this, because this is the warning he gave me….When you are with your wife, the lord has made man to be the head. Not the woman. So those men who enjoy their wife coming on top of them in the matrimonial bed, the lord says they are not coming to heaven at all...

The lord told me about those who practice like a dog. The lord did not to create you to behave like a dog on your matrimonial bed. Or like a cow. Or like a chicken.”

“If you are practicing hanging with your wife [bondage], you are inventing different styles… Don’t go and be hanging your wife. Don’t go and be hanging your husband. Do not try different styles: they do sex in different styles that are contrary to god.”

“Those who masturbate. That department [of hell] is for them. Those who give lustful pleasure to the flesh. Women who masturbate. Men who masturbate… The demons will come to them.” And while the masturbator “soul will cry,” the demons “will be laughing. And they will be happy.”

“The man should lie on top of the woman. The natural style, the one way god has given us as man and wife.”

Here’s the pastor’s video. The sex advice begins around the six-minute mark:

Let me conclude this post with a story told by Pastor Oladejo:

Humanity is lost to sin and now we are unable to see God. One day, I went to the a [sic] place called the Royal Mile in the City center of Edinburgh the capital of Scotland. I saw many people gather as a preacher was calling for repentance among men. 

One man stepped forward and identified himself as an athiest [sic] and that he does not believe in the existence of God. He told everyone that man was developed from Evolution. I saw the ignorance on the face of the man and I request to ask a question. 

My question was that if the theory of Evolution was true why did that happened only once. Why have we not seen another Ape developing to become humans again! The athiest [sic] could not answer the question but maintained that men came out of Ape.

One day you will face the Lord, even if you dont [sic] want to face him. That day is going to be fearful and terrible if you do not have Jesus in your life. It is important that you realised that ignorance will not be acceptable before God but God will judge you with only one thing, The BIBLE!! It is therefor [sic] in your best interest to go to your Bible and see what is written in it so that you can save your soul from eternal damnation.

Bruce Gerencser, 67, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 46 years. He and his wife have six grown children and thirteen grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist.

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34 Comments

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    John Arthur

    Hi Bruce,

    This pastor is a Pentecostal “nut cake”. “Missionary position”?????????????? The guy is making it all up.

    Shalom,

    John Arthur

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    Geoff

    That’s embarrassing, I quite like Peterborough. I doubt he has much of a congregation.

    He seems to know a lot about all these different positions. Just saying…

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    Ahab

    Well, I’m definitely going to hell, according to this preacher. Why are people like him so obsessed with what other consenting adults do in their bedrooms?

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    HeIsSailing

    I did some snooping around YouTube. It looks like Olugbenga Oladejo is somehow also affiliated with this African church https://www.youtube.com/user/Ynhitz/videos You do not have to watch the videos. Just look at the titles. Warning Against oral sex From Jesus to Married Christian Couples. A woman in Hell for fake hair. You will go to hell if you listen to Michael Jackson. The 20 sins of jewelery. Women in Hell because their husbands did not pay the dowry. A man in Hell for lusting after a woman dressed sensually. A woman in Hell for sucking her husband’s sexual part. Pope John Paul II in Hell. An 8 Year Old Child in Hell for Watching cartoons. And on and on and on … What amazes me is not so much the fear and superstition coming out of these backwater churches. I saw plenty of that growing up in the American mid-west. What amazes me even more is that American Evangelicals often brag that Christianity is spreading like wildfire in sub-sahara Africa, and will claim them into their numbers when the opportunity suits them. I have long suspected that if Evangelicals could actually see these churches that they brag about, they would not even recognize them as Christianity. You want Christianity to spread into alien cultures that actively believe in magic? This is what you get.

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      Becky Wiren

      I’m not surprised. It is western ministers who helped write the anti-gay bill in Uganda, including the “death for being gay” part. People have protested that part of the law but as far as I know, the Christian Right is okay with it.

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      Kingskido

      The comments about issues like this puts the person giving the information in the court of humans and deny that the message has any credible origin; in this case God. I believe that if man really believes the existence of God and he is answerable to God, then he would want to verify such information with the purported source. And many humans come short of the ability to communicate with and hear from God.

      We have two options ie. the message is from a cranky or religious fanatic under some illusions and should not be taken serious or It is actually true in its entirety. In the first instance all comments made denying any truth about this Pastors story are correct and he should be disregarded; in the second instance all comments are in error and following the self-delusion deniability that gives man false hope when matters are too difficult for us to accept but cannot handle.

      The arguments for and against the story may be seen as just personal opinions but in the day when man stands before God to answer for everything he did on this earth it will be clear who was in error but it will be too late to make amends and this is what Satan is using to make man offend every Gods instruction today as has been from begining

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    Matilda

    I’m from near Peterborough and can assure you this crazy man will have just a few crazy followers. We Brits are blessed (or cursed) with a generous measure of cynicism….and I’d like to think common sense! I now live in Wales where a similar small wacky group meets in my village hall and are laughed at by the rest of us. They say that under the beautiful sea that I view from my windows, is Leviathan, about to strike the country for our perceived sins. I keep hoping I’ll see him and snap a photo to make me millions as I unmask Wales’ very own Loch Ness Monster!

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    Marlena

    “The lord did not to create you to behave like a dog on your matrimonial bed. Or like a cow. Or like a chicken.”

    Chicken, huh? Haven’t heard that one before. Pretty extreme tastes this guy must have when his congregation isn’t around.

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    Angiep

    He forgot to mention fetishists who practice “pony play.” They actually dress up as horses and get each other all turned on for sex that way. Obviously that is OF THE DEVIL!!!

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    Susan

    In the days of Noah, many made snide remarks and mocked Noah when he was building the ark and inviting people to come in to safety. Alas! It was like a dream when the flood came. Thinking it was going to abate shortly, they realisd too late that all what Noah was telling them was true; they were swept off by the flood. If you people continue to despise the warnings of God by His servant, you will likewise perish.
    To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

    • Bruce Gerencser

      And you know this to be true, how? Were you there? Outside of a mythical story in a mythical book, you have no evidence for your claims. Why, then, should any of us listen to your warnings? Suppose I believed that Earth was populated with Aliens from Mars. I don’t KNOW they exist, but I read a science fiction book that told they do, indeed, exist. Would you consider it rational and reasonable to believe Earth is populated with Aliens from Mars? Of course not? Yet, you expect people to dismiss reason, rationality, and skepticism in favor of mythical stories written thousands of years ago.

      I will, indeed, perish, as will all living things, but I have no fear of God or judgement. When I am dead, I will remain dead. End of story.

  9. Ami

    A chicken?
    Yeah, in 41 years with the same partner, we’ve never tried doing it chicken-style.

    Just when you think you’ve said WTAF over the most crazy thing EVER some other crazy comes along.
    Wow.

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    dale M

    Oh Suzie! Suzie! Its all right dear child. I myself was brought up a Christian. I too was told the same stories about Santa Claus! About the Tooth Fairy! About the Christ! About the Devil! And you know what? I became an adult. I realized fantasy has its place as a child but, as an adult, I was expected to grow up too. That’s the second part of your training. That was the fault of your parents. They were to instruct you on the 2nd part of your training. What happened to you ? How come you got left behind? Shame on your parents!

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    dale M

    This dude with the unpronounceable name …. Has he never read that Bible he is so inspired about? Doesn’t Jesus say something about dark skinned people keeping their place as slaves to the lighter skinned people? Why is he a preacher? Did he not like that part? Dark skinned people preaching to light skinned people? I don’t think that’s allowed in the Bible. Typical evangelical. Uh Bruce, I think you’re the expert on that particular one. Good luck with this guy ….

  12. Brian Vanderlip

    Well, this guy had a vision like Paul on the road and you dare not listen? If you try the dog, the goat, the chicken, then you will die the death of tiny cuts, little tiny, painful cuts forever and ever… The pastor dreams and then wakes his wife up to tell her about the missionary position and God’s ordinances. The lives of pastor’s wives are really quite challenging, huh? Just go back to sleep, Olug, baby… you’ll be okay in the morning….
    Olugbenga Oladejo is being paid for this oral pulpit masturbation. Isn’t it wonderful that he can masturbate like this with his (I’m sure quite small) congregation, sharing all these positions not allowed in heaven.
    (By the way, I get the doggy and goat and cow stuff and can even visualize the chicken dance but what is the hanging stuff? Don’t hang your wife…don’t hang your husband… what the hell is that???)
    Jumpin’ bejeebers, I’m getting too old for all this foolery!

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    ObstacleChick

    I think a lot of his congregants might not mind if doggy style sex sends them to hell…..

    What does he think about Jerry Falwell Jr sitting in the corner and watching – as long as it’s missionary style?

  14. MJ Lisbeth

    I know I’ve mentioned this on other posts. But I think two lines from William Blake are apt:

    Prisons are built from stones of law,
    Brothels from bricks of religion.

    Pastors iike Olugbenga Oladejo keep lots of sex workers in business.

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    Yulya Sevelova

    Anyone can have bad creams. I think this is the case with the pastor here. And fear is at the root of everything they do. Yes,there’s all kinds of videos about hell,trips one takes to hell,like some woman who was shown hell because she was wearing hair extensions and fake nails,etc. It was real depressing hearing how they went out of their way to qualify themselves to appease what they think is god talking to them. Lots of videos like these out tjere.

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    John Arthur

    Hi Bruce,

    This guy says I’m off to hell when I die. He’s said on one of the articles that I read that he’s been to hell and visited a particular department where we’ll be and where demons will torture us by chopping us up with extreme pain and the reconstituting us. He doesn’t say whether he was in pain when he visited hell but he says that those married couples who do not practice the “missionary” position will be there, including Christians.

    This guy is either making all up and fooling his gullible congregation or he needs urgent psychiatric help. I can’t find (anywhere) in the bible where it talks about any missionary position and this so-called pastor’s quoting of the bible is eisegesis not exegesis.

    Why don’t his Christian followers read their bibles and reject his leadership? If they did read their bibles carefully, some might see that it is full of contradictions and much of it is plainly barbaric, not any word of any supposed god. But most are imprisoned in his ridiculous Evangelical cult and will remain so till someone, or some circumstances, open their eyes.

    He’s nuts!

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    Yulya Sevelova

    A lot of bad, marginalized ministries from America and the UK have gone to Africa,and promoted their cult beliefs to different countries there for a good hundred years,if not longer. Pastor O. is just repeating what he was raised with or taught. Women and children are treated very badly in such churches, the kids often accused of being witches. Sad stuff ! The Bible doesn’t mention sex positions for couples. Like men on top/ bottom,etc.

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