There Are So Many Gays in the Olympics Now

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My wife and her mother talk via telephone every Sunday evening around 9:00 PM. One recent topic of discussion was the Winter Olympics. Polly and her Mom both shared what events they liked watching. Polly’s mom, a devout Independent Fundamentalist Baptist (IFB) Christian, shared one observation that left Polly and me laughing when she told me what her mom had said. There sure are a lot of gays in the Olympics now, Mom said, with, I am sure, a shaking of her head a low sounding, umm hmm — the sound she makes when something or someone doesn’t meet her approval.

Polly said nothing. She could have, of course, told her mom that there have always been gay athletes in the Olympics. Gays, gays, gays, everywhere gays, but for most of Mom’s life, they quietly hid in dark closets, so she didn’t see them. Out of sight, out of mind. Now that closet doors have been flung open, Fundamentalists are forced to see and engage people who are considered by them to be abominable reprobates. I have no doubt that Fundamentalists wish that gays would stop flaunting their sexuality — you know like heterosexuals flaunt theirs.

Mom’s youngest brother died of a viral heart disease at age fifty-one. Art was a wonderful man, a pacifist who refused to carry a gun during the Vietnam War. He was a telecommunications operator. Art lived in Michigan, hours away from his Fundamentalist family. When he traveled to Ohio to visit on holidays, he would attend church with the family at the Newark Baptist Temple. I never heard Art talk about God, Jesus, the Bible, or Christianity. He supposedly made a profession of faith as a boy, but I doubt that Art attended church other than when he was visiting his Fundamentalist family. After Art died, it was left to his two preacher’s-wife sisters to settle his estate and take care of his personal property. There were things “found” at his apartment that still can’t be talked about to this day. I’ve thought, over the years, surely everyone knew Art was gay. The first time I met Art was Thanksgiving 1976. I knew immediately that Art was “different” from the rest of us fine upstanding Christians. It’s too bad he died so young. I suspect he would have found today’s societal openness towards gays liberating. I would love to have had an opportunity to talk to him about life as a gay man in a Fundamentalist Baptist family.

I don’t fault my mother-in-law for being homophobic. She was raised in a Fundamentalist Christian home where human sexuality was defined by the Bible. Gay people were disgusting, vile cretins in need of old-fashioned Baptist salvation. Getting saved turned sinners into saints, homosexuals into heterosexuals. This is how I was raised too. From my elementary school years forward, I heard pastors, youth directors, and Sunday school teachers say that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah over the sin of ho-mo-sex-u-al-ity (shout the word loudly, enunciating each syllable while pounding on the pulpit). Gay people were viewed as sexual predators. No child was safe when near homosexuals. Church was considered a safe haven because there supposedly weren’t any gays in IFB churches.

I didn’t personally know a gay person until high school. I knew a lot of people who were called queers and faggots, but these slurs were often hurled towards boys who refused to participate in gym or who acted in ways deemed unmanly. They may or may not have been gay. In ninth grade, my gym teacher decided to teach us how to square dance. My pastor got wind of this and made a fuss. Dancing? In school? This resulted in me sitting on the sidelines while everyone else, save two other boys, learned to do-si-do and swing their partner round and round. The other two boys? Yeah….the two “queers” who refused to participate in gym. I was thoroughly embarrassed by having to sit with these boys. (Please read Good Baptist Boys Don’t Dance.)

I am sure my mother-in-law, along with her fellow Christians, is upset and alarmed over how out-in-the-open gay people are these days. Why, there’s even gays kissing on TV! Umm hmm. What Fundamentalists fail to understand is that there have always been gay people. Religious oppression kept them from openly expressing their sexuality. Now, LGBTQ people are out of the closet and openly living their lives as they see fit. Their openness scares the Jesus right out of Fundamentalists. They genuinely believe that homosexuality is a sin above all sins, and that societies which endorse and support such behavior will be judged and destroyed by God. This is why Fundamentalists opposed same-sex marriage and continue to threaten boycotts of companies that support the “gay agenda” or the “gay lifestyle.”  The problem now, of course, is that anti-gay Fundamentalists make up a small and shrinking percentage of Americans and tend to live in southern or rural communities. They no longer have the political power necessary to turn back the Sodomite horde. As the United States becomes more inclusive and tolerant, Fundamentalists are forced to admit that Christianity no longer rules the roost; that even some Evangelicals now think it is okay for people to be gay; that come the next Olympics there will be gay athletes. Umm  hmm…..

About Bruce Gerencser

Bruce Gerencser, 60, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 39 years. He and his wife have six grown children and eleven grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist. For more information about Bruce, please read the About page.

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12 Comments

  1. Steve

    “Fundamentalists wish that gays would stop flaunting their sexuality — you know like heterosexuals flaunt theirs”

    Lmfao! ??

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  2. Becky Wiren

    This is one reason why I stopped going to church. We are related to gay people and my beliefs matured and I saw that they truly loved each other. Now, I know there are differing explanations about what the Bible really means, but I didn’t really believe those differing explanations. I turned my back on those beliefs and was done with anti-LGBTQ churches. Because gay marriage is about 2 people who love each other and want to make a serious commitment to each other. And I just told a friend recently concerning LGBTQ people: “Why don’t you conservatives just leave people alone and let then live their lives?”

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  3. GeoffT

    It’s hardly surprising that being gay was something you kept quiet until fairly recently, given the horrific judicial consequences of exposure; castration for one, and even now it’s a death sentence in many countries.

    Fundamentalists must be having a real problem when hunky male athletes come out as gay. It’s one thing when some seedy, socially awkward, spotty kid is identified as gay because then they can just say no girl would ever fancy him anyway, so he ‘chose’ to be gay. Handsome, athletic guys, who could have a wide choice of women, coming out for them is a real bummer for those who say it’s a lifestyle choice.

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    1. Brian

      I still remember hearing certain young women in my high school lament that all the very best looking guys seemed to be gay, the terrible loss of it. As GeoffT says, it isn’t a laughing matter in many places and can cost lives. We are very advanced, we bipeds. We organize ourselves and have religion where a Steven Anderson can be a preacher and politics where a Trump can actually be elected. Wow. And the Christians say that all the gays are free to dance in public because we are not Christian enough! (Well, not all the Christians, just lots!)

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  4. ObstacleChick

    It’s sad that in 2018 that being a gay athlete is worthy of comment. But as we are still talking about someone being an African American sped skater or swimmer or hockey player and the civil rights movement happened how many decades ago? Hell, we have a loooong way to go toward accepting other humans for themselves.

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    1. Rebecca

      Totally agree, Obstacle Chick.

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  5. maura a hart

    fear and hatred, hatred and fear. they call that love.

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  6. Trenton

    They wouldn’t know love even if cupid shot them with an arrow. It would probably be considered of the devil because its pagan.? That being said, it is a lot more fun without the closets. All sunshine and rainbows and fabulous parties. Beware of any rainbows in the dark on wooden landlocked boats in kentucky cuz next time its fire y’all. ?

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  7. howitis

    When Ken Ham’s Ark Joke (I refuse to call it an “Encounter”…heh) goes bankrupt and shuts down, and it will, it would be sweet, sweet justice if someone were to buy it and turn it into a giant gay nightclub. Or perhaps even better, a shelter for LGBTQ teens who have been kicked out of their homes by their “loving” christian bigot parents.

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    1. Brian

      Well said, howitis…

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  8. Appalachian Agnostic

    I secretly laughed at a family member who complained that they’ve gayed up Batman now. I never really got into the franchise, but I heard rumors about him and Robin many years ago.

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  9. Neil

    Batman’s gay? Oh no! I’ve been reading his comics for 55 years now and I never realised. So his engagement to Selina Kyle, aka Catwoman, (see current comics) is just a sham? I’m so disillusioned!

    Batman may not be gay, but I am and it’s taken me most of my life to come to terms with it, thanks in no small part to the church and loving Christians, who consistently told me (and everyone else) that people like me were degraded, inferior, Satanic, the worst kind of sinners.

    Of course we’re nothing of the sort and the relationships I’ve had since escaping the faith (and its effects) have been joyous and fulfilling. Like Bruce, though for different reasons, I too feel entitled to a refund. Jesus took – or rather I foolishly gave him – most of my life, denying myself in every way, never being the person I really was. I guess I resent that, though I am now happy to be in the place I should’ve been 48 years ago, before I encountered Jesus and his self-appointed agents here on Earth.

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