Women were much safer when they lived under their father’s roof until marriage (IF they had a good father) and then under their husband’s roof when married (IF they have a good husband). Feminism has made women unsafe. They have fought for women to attend universities. Are women safe in the universities? “Sexual assault on college campuses is a common problem that often goes unreported. It includes any unwanted sexual activity, from unwanted touching to rape. Alcohol and drugs often play a role in sexual assault on campuses.” They have fought for women to have careers. Is the workforce safe for women? “Workplace sexual harassment is widespread, with studies estimating that anywhere from almost a quarter to more than eight in ten women experience it in their lifetimes.”
As you can see, women attending universities and having careers have made women much more unsafe than they were living under their fathers’ roof and then their husbands’.
— Lori Alexander, The Transformed Wife, Women Are More Unsafe These Days, August 3, 2019
This woman advocates for sexual assault in marriage! I watched a video where she said basically said rape isn’t possible in marriage. And no, woman are unsafe because other people, mainly men, choose to harm them. They are empowered by a culture where they aren’t held accountable. Women should never have to change their own behavior and restrict their own lives to be “safe.” She makes my blood boil.
fear. that is all christians have. they say love, but they spread fear and rage and hatred
but this lori person seems really really filled with self loathing for her own gender.
I’ve met many ‘Lori Alexander’ clones.
My own mom is one.
My dad went to some men’s conference once and for months afterward would thunder, “I HAVE SPOKEN” when he made a decision.
Meaning no dissent would be allowed.
The ignorance and powerlessness of the Christian woman is something to be pitied. And avoided.
Apparently their god calls them to be doormats.
This isn’t typical of Christian females, by any means. I’m all for laughing at looney tunes, but most Christian women I know and have known would laugh at this too.
In Evangelical circles, there are many Lori Alexanders, especially on the right-wing fringe of Evangelicalism.
Glad I’ve not met them. The women in my family all had careers.
Lori is a “lock her up” advocate in more ways than one!
Where did she say she fantasized about sexual assault? All she said was that women being in the workplace exposes them to predatory advances from strange men because their husbands aren’t home to protect them.
Men are, on average, taller, stronger, more muscular, more aggressive, more competitive, and more athletic than women. Men have slower heartbeats and faster recovery times. Men can run faster and lift more than women can. That’s how we were made. In universities, men tend to major in harder disciplines such as math and engineering compared to women. Occupations like medicine, law, hard sciences, engineering, business, politics, and finance- all tend to be dominated by men.
That isn’t to say there aren’t women who can’t perform at the same level as men. Such women do exist. But they are not the average. The average woman is smaller, weaker, less muscular, less aggressive, and more emotional than a man. They get pregnant, have kids, and breastfeed them. That’s their biology. My view is that a woman may work outside the home (minus jobs like sex work which I strongly condemn anyone who enters into) as long as she understands the risk and is willing to be held to the same performance standards as men. But if not, she shouldn’t. If a woman joins the military, she has to be able to perform at the same physical level as men. Let’s face it. A 120 pound woman is usually not going to be able to move a 200 pound guy to safety under fire.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not one of those guys who says women aren’t allowed to talk in church or have to submit 100% to men. But in most cases, the man naturally assumes the position of superior over the wife, Christian or otherwise.
That said, I don’t like women who are too submissive to the point that they don’t defend themselves at all. My grandmother was a traditional housewife and she wasn’t afraid to stand up to my grandfather and tell him off if he got too overbearing. Surprisingly, my grandfather usually let the situation drop when she did so.