My name is Daniel. I reside in North Carolina. And I am a virgin man. Yes, I am. My mom taught me to not have sex until I was married and by the grace of God, I kept to this commitment. I was saved 16 years ago and believe that all Christians should uphold Hebrews 13:4 highly and live it out in their lives as faithfully as possible. The marriage bed should remain undefiled before and even after marriage. Sexually purity is crucial for a happy marriage.
I am in the process of becoming a homeowner and desire a godly wife who wants to be a submissive homemaker and who desires a large family (like at least 10 children). When God said to be fruitful and multiply, he meant it. This woman should already be involved in church activities and be held accountable or be discipled by a more seasoned Christian woman who interacts with her on a weekly & monthly basis.
I work with my hands as a handyman, landscaper and mechanical repair man. (Auto and home appliances to be exact). I also have skills in electrical and plumbing work. I am physically fit and hope the woman I marry would at least value her health enough to stay active in some productive way too. I don’t want a lazy woman.
I am pro-marriage, pro-gun (self-defense), pro-biblical gender roles. And I am also for Biblical Patriarchy, I just believe it should be practiced the way the Church and Christ practice it in their relationship.
Lastly, I love to cook, dance, sing, read books, host people over for meals, evangelize my neighbors and community and even have a online Christian ministry. I currently serve as the ‘precinct chair’ in my community and I am politically conservative and desire the same in my bride.
I am reformed [Calvinist] in theology and presbyterian in church government. I am anti-abortion, anti-feminism, anti-LGBTQ alphabet monster and anti-socialism/communism. There’s more, but this is a good start.”
— Biblical Gender Roles, 41 y/o Masculine Christian Man Seeking a Young Feminine Christian Virgin Sister, July 12, 2022
Bruce Gerencser, 67, lives in rural Northwest Ohio with his wife of 46 years. He and his wife have six grown children and sixteen grandchildren. Bruce pastored Evangelical churches for twenty-five years in Ohio, Texas, and Michigan. Bruce left the ministry in 2005, and in 2008 he left Christianity. Bruce is now a humanist and an atheist.
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Aaargh! Ugh! What a sick sick personal ad! And that photo of the women dressed in something like hijab – what the hell is that? 😳
I chose the photo. I believe this is a photo of virgin Orthodox women. Young, healthy virgins.
Looks more like cosplay.
Worst. SF/F. Convention. Ever! 😀
Well, this incel – character IS from North Carolina, a place notorious for fanatics, poverty and violence. I’ve seen that website before, and looked at the other titles there. Other than an arranged marriage among the church groups he’s connected to, I can’t see a young woman going for HIM. There’s the Quiverful courtship sects, that’s his best bet. Looks aren’t taken into account,as far as what the girls might want. I feel sorry for whoever gets snagged by him, especially any kids from she ch a union. I’ve encountered people like him in rural Northern California, among small obscure churches here and there- that area’s ride with them. Ewww yuck !
The guy likes cooking? But that is suppose to be woman’s work! How dare he! And he likes dancing? In many churches dancing is a sin. Regardless, I don’t know why he thinks a young virgin wants a 41 yr old virgin man. At his age his sperm is not very good sorry to say, but there are medical studies saying ‘old man sperm’ causes children to be born with learning disabilities. The study was in men over 30 so he is way too late. It’s scary he wants 10 children at his age. His time has done come and gone because of his extreme demands. Literally no woman born in this century wants a shithead like him. He really sounds like an Incel to be honest.
Wow,,that website is a mess of prejudice and defense of an extreme masculinity.
After reading that, I’m beginning to understand why he’s never been kissed, at 41 years…
I think this obviously gay man doth protest too much.
Ange and Neil–I was having similar thoughts.
If anything, he is best suited to run as a Republican in some office south of the Potomac and between the Sierra Nevada and the Appalachians.
When I read this I thought, surely it’s satire. But I guess there are people this extreme in the world. It made me thankful to be single all over again!
And the only “ass” he’s had in 41 years is when his finger ripped through the Charmin Tissue. Does any sane man or woman wonder why?
So she’s to pop out 10 babies and service his every need in the home, 24/7….and he doesn’t want a ‘lazy’ woman. Wow! He certainly ain’t gonna help with the kids or the chores, that’s wimin’s work and it would be an attempt on wifey’s part to emasculate him if she even suggested he made her a cup of tea, or childminded for an hour! I liked reading No Longer Quivering’s take on QF. A troll told us that wimin should cultivate a veg patch too, grow wheat for bread and grow and spin flax (sooo biblical) to make the family’s clothes. As a sew-ist I volunteered to run up some garments for him if he sent me the linen cloth. I was sure he’d look amazing in them!!
🤮🤮🤮 This fellow should be asking himself the question, “Why am I still single”? Even the women at his church, which is presumably as conservative as he is, have kept a wide berth. Dang, he isn’t looking fir a wife, he’s looking fir a brood mare willing to do all the household chores and “look good” too. Yeah, I don’t think that is happening. I read this, and I think RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN.
Yeah. Basically his article read to me as – “I have failed as a human being. But I would like someone to share that failure with me whilst I also humiliate them.” For the sake of all the world’s women I hope he spends the next 41 years single.
“When God said to be fruitful and multiply, he meant it”
Ye gods, I hate this so much… just because the ancient authors could never conceive of the possibility that the mission could be accomplished at some point, so never thought to include instructions on when to !@#$%ing STOP already!
Nope, “population breaking the world, add more population”.
He’s 41, his skillset suggests his income isn’t all that impressive, and he thinks he’s gonna support a wife and ten kids. Oh, and people who do physical work for a living tend to start needing to slow down in their fifties, because it’s hard work on your joints and back, and arthritis begins to make your life difficult. He also tellingly doesn’t include wording suggesting he’s running his own business, so he has no way to age out of the hard physical labor gracefully, and shift to managing jobs instead.
From a pragmatic point of view, he’s a terrible catch.
Unfortunately, I’ve read that the ratio of marriage-age single women to men who might be interested in them, in Evangelical Christian circles, is quite high. All those sisters who are ten pounds overweight, aren’t consistently sweet and demure, don’t have at least three volunteer jobs in the church, etc., are rejected out of hand. Sufficiently desperate parents might well push a daughter in this guy’s direction, and she might not be able to say ‘no’ without triggering a long-running family shitstorm.
Not impressed by his skill set – I have most of it myself. (I have a great garage guy, so my auto repairs are just minor things like topping up fluids and replacing burnt-out bulbs.) Got a house of my own (paid off!)
The rest of his profile is a hard “Nope!” Patriarchy? Antifeminist? Anti-abortion? Anti-LGBTQ? Evangelizing the neighbours??? I’d give a first date probably less than 15 minutes before I reached for a Clue-By-Four™ with malice of forethought.
I’m happily married (42 years last month!) and so out of the running, but I will gladly loan my cane to any woman willing to do a first date with him. She might need it as a defensive weapon.
Karen—Congratulations!
So that’s what those canes are for? I learn something new every day.😉
No. No. No. And No.
I really can’t just write “No”? My comment was too short, according to the pop up. lol.