Local Man, Dan Gray, Continues to Slander Me

Cartoon of Dan Gray, Defiance, Ohio

Libel is writing what you know to be false, and which hurts a person’s good name or reputation. As I shall make clear, Dan Gray, a local Christian man, continues to make accusations about me that he knows are false. I successfully rebutted his claims years ago, yet Gray continues to spread harmful lies about me and my family.

In 2020, a man named Michael Kitchens asked the following question in the Fighting for Faith Crew group on Facebook — six years ago. Here’s what he said:

Has anyone here heard of ex-pastor-turned-avowed atheist Bruce Gerencser?

No one answered this question for six years, and then, nine weeks ago, someone answered.

Here’s the conversation so far:

Joyce: Yes. But no sermons or video of his preaching available. Can anyone verify the 25 years evangelical part of his life? I just want a couple of sermons to review.

Michael: Joyce Boyd Bruce has (or at least had) a website called “The Way Forward”. If it is no longer active, you might be able to find it via the Internet Wayback Machine. The site may have info on his evangelical years.

Joyce: Michael Kitchens found nothing so far.

Michael: Joyce Boyd Hmm okay. He probably wanted his info to be scrubbed. If that’s the case, I’m not sure why.

Bruce: https:brucegerencser.net

Bruce: Michael Kitchens, You can’t find anything about me on the internet? Lots of stuff, including media interviews I’ve done and stories I’ve appeared in.

https://brucegerencser.net/media-interviews/

Bruce Gerencser

Daniel “Dan” Gray: Joyce Boyd no such person exists. The closest he ever got to the clergy is when he claimed to be a pastor when he got his fake license from an internet website called the Monastery. A place tha over 45 states refuse to recognize including Ohio.

Bruce: Joyce Boyd,

https://brucegerencser.net/2015/12/im-now-ordained-though-church-latter-day-dude/

You know, you could ask me. I’m an open book.

Bruce Gerencser

Polly: Here’s his blog: https://brucegerencser.net

I’m sure he will answer any questions you might have. I’ve known him for fifty years. We took this journey together.

Dan Gray: Polly Gerencser a complete pile of horse crap. Why is it that no Baptist sect will claim him or admit he worked as a pastor? Why isn’t he listed on any state licensing registration list as is required by law? Why has he continually refusing to name even one church? Sounds like a major fantasy on his part.

Bruce: Dan Gray, the only fantasy is in your head. All of this information is readily available on my website. Or, since I’m from Bryan, pastored local churches in West Unity and Alvordton, and lots of locals have heard me preach, I’m sure you can find plenty of people who know my back story. Further, I attended First Baptist Church in Bryan. I was attending there in 1976 when I went to Midwestern Baptist College in Pontiac, Michigan.

I suppose my wife was lying too? Or maybe you could contact my older children, Jason or Nathan. They attended every church I pastored except the last one in Clare, Michigan. Or are they liars too?

I have plenty of relatives and friends in this area who also know my backstory. I suppose they are all liars too?

Not sure why you have this axe to grind with me, Dan. I don’t know you, yet you have repeated these lies for years. I value honesty, don’t you? So much so that I’ll give $100 to your favorite charity if you can find one error/mistake/lie of consequence about my storyline on my website. I’m confident you will find none. And when you come up empty, I hope you will return to this group and admit you are wrong. That would be the honorable thing to do.

Bruce Gerencser

Three years ago, Michael Kitchens asked this question:

Has anyone here ever heard of ex-pastor-turned-atheist Bruce Gerencser? He had (and maybe still has) a website called “The Way Forward”. I happened across it while doing an Internet search several years ago. However, it seems that BG isn’t nearly as well known as say, Richard Dawkins, Sam Harris, Bart Ehrman, Christopher Hitchens, Stephen Hawking, etc.

Has he been disavowed by other atheists or something?

Joni: He mainly points out the hypocrisy….
Black collar crime!

Polly: He’s still around. I just slept with him last night. 🤣🤣❤️❤️

He’s a pretty open guy. Contact him, and I’m sure he will respond.

Dan Gray: Never was a pastor and when you challenge him to prove it, he either refuses or just goes silent

Never ends. Gray deliberately libels me. Why? What does he hope to gain? Isn’t lying a sin, one that, according to Revelation 21:8 lands you in the Lake of Fire?

This is so silly, yet damaging at the same time. Worse, it really annoys me when people like him call Polly or our children liars. Of course, Gray does this to try and hurt me. He is a pettifogger extraordinaire, so I don’t expect him to confess the error of his way.

More posts about Dan Gray:

Three years ago, I wrote a post detailing the churches I pastored and what happened to them. You can read this post here.

Comments

12 responses to “Local Man, Dan Gray, Continues to Slander Me”

  1. Gee, he seems nice.
    Seriously, what is the purpose of someone acting like this?
    It’s not that difficult to consult Google or another search engine.
    A quick search found a lot of links to you and the things you’ve written/churches you’ve pastored/your love of money/your fabulous wealth from preachin’.

    So weird, but maybe Dan Gray never heard of Google.

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    John S.

    I think this dude is just being a jerk, to be honest.

    I wonder sometimes about evangelical folks who act this way.

    It’s almost like they think when they stand before their final life review, Jesus is going be like, “Well Dan, you did some pretty big sinning here on Earth…hmm..oh wait..looks like you pestered Bruce Gerencser by making stuff up about him..well hell, in that case all is forgiven! Come on in to heaven!”

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    Revival “I Lie for Jesus” Fires

    Well about pants on fire this happened to a friend Roy he got the bright idea to fart for. . .

    Comment deleted

  4. There’s no doubt whatsoever that Dan is being a wilfully ignorant coward. What are the odds he’s a diehard Evangelical?

  5. Oh, that reminds me, Bruce, I received a friend request from you, along with a phone number that doesn’t match the one you have on your site. I’m a bit wary to put it mildly, I’ll try and share the link.

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      Go ahead and accept it, if you wish. It’s me. I miss my friends. ❤️❤️

      1. I’ve accepted 🙂

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    Dan is Trolling you Bruce.

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      Not sure why your comments went to moderation. You are on the always approve list.

      I’m sure he’s trolling me. However, according to a lawyer I talked to, he is also libeling me. His comments aren’t opinions, they are lies, and he knows he’s lying. This has been going on for 15 years, first in the newspaper, and now on social media too. His verbal gossip about me has reached my ears too.🤬🤬

      One of Gray’s younger relatives contacted me a few years ago. He apologized for Dan being an asshole. Then he said, “we are not all like him.” He’s a dour, unhappy man. The world won’t conform to his way of life, and his interpretation of everything from the Bible to the Constitution to the Declaration of Independence to whatever obscure ordinance/law/rule he found buried in Defiance’s archives.

      Good news is that Gray is old. This problem will fix itself naturally if I’m patient.😜😜

  7. Ask him who won the 2020 election.

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    “Polly: He’s still around. I just slept with him last night. 🤣🤣❤❤”

    Zoe: My favourite part of this post. 🙂

    I’m sorry Bruce that Dan prefers lying to speaking the truth. I had a former friend who said it was okay to lie if it is for the cause of Christ. Maybe he comes out with both guns blazing with hopes of shutting down lurkers who then run away from controversy because he scares them to death.

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    Greg T

    Bruce, IMO it would be a positive act to ignore this as much as you can. You have rent-free space in his head, no need to return the favor to him. We know from their fruit that such people are vindictive and powered by self-righteous rage, that’s enough to go on. Any more of your energy spent in attempting to reason with him is wasted.

    Note: I also am ex-Christian, maybe atheist maybe not, but I certainly can see and understand the case for it. Just living life.

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